We are all raised to believe that sex is meant to be strictly between a man and a woman so it comes as no surprise that most people are often puzzled as to why couples would want a third person to join them during their intimate moments. The reasons why couples want a man to join them differ from couple to couple but a few general ones include the fact that some women fantasize about being with a particular kind of guy and their husbands want to turn that fantasy into reality, women are more prone to getting jealous than men so they would rather have a man join them than a woman and also men are not likely to disrupt a couple's union because they are just interested in getting physical and don't care about making an emotional connection with the couple.
A very large portion of single men who get lucky with a couple are black and they are well-endowed. This is not a coincidence as most women fantasize about getting nailed by a hung black guy. This fact is well documented in various novels, erotic stories and even a few private women's diaries whose contents have leaked online. The women with this fantasy convince their husbands to let a black guy who is packing major heat in between his legs join in their fun and the ever loving and loyal husbands agree because they want to please their wives.
Fantasies aside, women are generally more prone to fits of jealous than men so if a couple adds a single woman as a third, it could create unnecessary tension and drama if the wife is insecure and she feels threatened by the new addition who could be younger, thinner or even have bigger boobs or a more shapely ample behind. Or the wife may think – sometimes erroneously that her husband is attracted to the single woman simply because he may unknowingly pay more attention to her as they play. Avoiding this kind of drama is important to husbands so they give in and invite a man instead of a woman.
Lastly, men are physical by nature whereas women are emotional so to a man, sex is merely a release while to a woman sex usually signifies a deeper bond and often creates an attachment. Couples who don't want to create doubt in their partners' minds opt to have a man join them instead of choosing a woman. Additionally, couples generally open up their bedroom doors to strangers because they are trying to enhance their relationships not destroy them so men are sometimes given preference over women because they are not viewed as home wreckers.
All things considered, choosing a man as a third makes sense for couples who want to maintain peace on the home front. The decision makes the wife happy because she feels less threatened and gets to live out her fantasy especially if that fantasy involves a hot hung man - and as every good husband knows, a happy wife means a happy home.
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